Ojonugwa Julius Akubo's Blog

  D id you read my post on SPENDING WAITING WISELY?🤨  If you have not read it, please do and also make sure you read this one👍.  I got to believe early that, opportunity does not only come once as against the theory of "opportunity comes but once". Yes, I didn't expect that to sound nice😛. However, I will explain.😄 ✍️Opportunity in the first place is a chance for advancement or better said a favorable situation. Now, tell me honestly, how many favorable situations have you had in your life? Was it just once? Obviously No! The glaring reality here is that, opportunities keep coming, although, same opportunities may not always come again and again. One thing is however certain, opportunity keeps coming like taxis shuffling a busy route. The frequency may differ for different people but, not until you have understood that perspective, you may not really get the crust of this piece🤠. So if we are clear on that, the next and major question becomes; why or what...

My mates are this my mates are that, weldon oh🤠, I greet you! I have read stories, watched documentaries and seen a couple of successful people. One thing that strikes about most of them is that, they didn't become successful the day they started. Did you hear that🤔 ? ✍️The desperate desire to make it now, now has over time cost us more than we would have gained, why🙄? Because we failed to appreciate time and growth. I don't in anyway discredit possiblities of sudden breaks, but our tenacity in expectation of sudden breaks must not be allowed to becloud our understanding of growth and development. Some people are of the believe that it is easier to make money from the poor than the rich or should I rather say, exploit the poor than the rich instead🤔. The reason is not far fetched it is because of the gullibility of the poor. Scriptures says the vision is for an appointed time which means there are things that will happen between the discovery of the vision and t...

Growth is one of the characteristics of life hence, should be normally "natural" right? Time however, has revealed again and again that growth is rather "stressful and demanding" as opposing to the fact that it is a normal life characteristic. Well, the saying of nothing good comes easy seems to be finding expression here. People overtime express their desires to grow in different ways but, only those who deliberately dared to pay the price have emerged differently. Wishes does not culminate into growth neither does anxiety. There is a cost implication of growth and it comes in different forms. The moment you discover the cost implication of the growth you desire and pay it in full, growth becomes the natural you talk about. Every picture is a mixture of features and those features don't just exist, they were created. Someone did something to make the thing you see a reality. The challenge of man today is that he wishes so much, that he fails to reco...

Three categories of people exist for me when talking about victors, those who struggle to win, those who know how to win and those who know how to win by making others win. Every single person you celebrate as a success story, falls into one of  these categories I mentioned. Do I still need to write or have you got my message already? It is simple, when you struggle to win, you struggle to stay a winner and almost often see everybody as a threat to your survival as a winner. When you know how to win, you keep winning but may never learn the best lessons of life embedded in relationships. You may almost always think nobody is as good as you are because you think your skill is an achievement that people can not attain or very rare people can posess. That's  not pride actually, they're just similar. However, when you know how to win by making others win, you build a transgenerational successions of winning. At this point your goal and ambition is not winning as a pers...